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	<description>Paddy and Carole Ducklow - change specialists who counsel, coach, consult individuals and organizations.</description>
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		<title>40 Years &#8212; Still Surprised</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2011 13:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In about a week, Carole and I will have been married for 40 years. We made a covenant back then in which we promised to love and obey. We’ve been fighting over that ever since and mostly in good humour. September is a time for promising. Much less glamourized than January, September is a time [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Best Kind of Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 04:46:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Of course it is true that marriage has its seasons. Carole and I have been married for 40 years this September. She still loves me and I cannot imagine my life without her. For both of us, life has been marked with difficulty as well as grace and that means marriage has been hard at [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Happy Synchronicity</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 19:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Two great thrusts and one great convergence! I have been listening to Bruno Mars and his “Doo-Wops and Hooligans.” All the while, I am writing a manual for couples in conflict. That’s not the synergy though. I also came across Susan Heitler’s “The Power of Two: Secrets to a Strong and Loving Marriage” and realized [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Basic &#8220;To-Dos&#8221; of Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Dec 2010 20:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like this marriage list a lot. It summarizes many of the basic &#8220;to-dos&#8221; of marriage. It was written by Michelle Weiner-Davis of &#8220;Divorce Busting&#8221; fame. [See "10 Marriage New Year's Resolutions for 2011" though this is good advice for anytime.] 1)  Make relationship goal-setting a priority- before weight loss or cutting back on drinking [...]]]></description>
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		<title>1950s Marriage Boing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 19:23:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been writing a book entitled &#8220;Couple&#8217;s Journey of a Lifetime: Mentoring for Pre-marriage, Re-marriage and Early Marriage&#8221; and I came across this funny YouTube clip on 1950s premarriage counselling. Watch it and you will discover the &#8220;Cupid&#8217;s Checklist,&#8221; a &#8220;Marriage Development Board&#8221; and advice on how to keep the &#8220;boing&#8221; in your marriage. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Their Kiss Still Works</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 06:47:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are lots of definitions of marriage. Few better than this one from Richard Selzer: “I stand by the bed where a young woman lies, her face postoperative, her mouth twisted in palsy, clownish. A tiny twig of the facial nerve, the one to the muscles of her mouth, has been severed. The surgeon had [...]]]></description>
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		<title>1 Out of Every 2 Couples Divorce? No way!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Feb 2010 19:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have people tell me that “1 out of every 2 couples divorce.” The tabloids say it often so you think it must be so. But it is not my experience &#8212; and I am a marital therapist who sees people who might have lots of reason to divorce (and, of course, some do). My [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is My Marriage Worth It?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 01:08:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Conflict and relationships go together. A conflict-free marriage is an oxymoron. Why? People mature at different rates; they have different values (some they don’t even know they have); and people see and experience the world differently. And all of this leads to tension that can result in conflict. And sometimes we wonder if marriage is [...]]]></description>
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