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		<title>WWJD?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 18:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am in the advice-giving business. At least I am when I am worn down from 8 hours of listening and I want to have a five-minute private audience for my thoughts and opinions. I have discovered that most people are pretty bad at taking advice from me and probably from others as well. My [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Happy Synchronicity</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 19:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Two great thrusts and one great convergence! I have been listening to Bruno Mars and his “Doo-Wops and Hooligans.” All the while, I am writing a manual for couples in conflict. That’s not the synergy though. I also came across Susan Heitler’s “The Power of Two: Secrets to a Strong and Loving Marriage” and realized [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Conflicted Couples: &#8220;I’m a Dirty Fighter&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 02:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am the dirty fighter in our marriage. Carole grew up with the idea that to go to bed angry was about as sinful as it gets, whereas I figured that going to sleep in the midst of shared madness was one way to solve it – pretend it never happened. Carole would then wake [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Someone Else’s Opinion of Me is None of My Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Sep 2010 02:40:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This oft-repeated phrase in AA and Alanon is profound in its simplicity. The capacity to define oneself in spite of the approval or judgment of another is a sign of emotional maturity and a quality that makes life work better. “Someone else’s opinion of me is none of my business.” Say it to yourself. Differentiation [...]]]></description>
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		<title>1950s Marriage Boing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 19:23:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been writing a book entitled &#8220;Couple&#8217;s Journey of a Lifetime: Mentoring for Pre-marriage, Re-marriage and Early Marriage&#8221; and I came across this funny YouTube clip on 1950s premarriage counselling. Watch it and you will discover the &#8220;Cupid&#8217;s Checklist,&#8221; a &#8220;Marriage Development Board&#8221; and advice on how to keep the &#8220;boing&#8221; in your marriage. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling Can Be Expensive (An Update)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 03:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now that is a truism. Sometimes I tell my clients that I can’t even afford me! (I am never sure how they take that.) But how you feel about the expense of counselling depends a lot on what you get out of it. My fee will increase on September 1 to $165 per hour (Carole’s [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When Life Happens: A + B = C</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 17:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Julie” had a lot of anxiety about most things. Relationships seemed to paralyze her. Her husband complained about the embarrassment of leaving parties before everyone else, or having to make excuses for declining business events that he wanted to attend. Sometimes Julie would even avoid contact with her own adult children if it involved meeting [...]]]></description>
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		<title>An Anger Parable</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 17:24:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There once was a little boy who had a temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the backyard fence. The first day the boy drove 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Counselling with Paddy &#8212; a Client Rave</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 21:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I receive raves. Here is one that I received not too long ago. [If passing this on to you seems too self-promoting, see the previous blogs on depression. You will be happy then!] I walked into my first appointment with Paddy reluctantly to say the least, but I quickly learned that I was there [...]]]></description>
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		<title>“How’s Your Day?” and Other Great Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 17:52:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“How are you doing?” “What’s going on?” “Can I help you?” “Where are you going?” “How’re you feeling?” Questions are important. They make you think. Two of my favourite parent-to-child questions are:  “What are you doing?” (this helps the child think about her behaviour); and  “What should you be doing?” (this helps the [...]]]></description>
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